Sunday, December 7, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 7, 2025

 



Sunday, December 7, 2025

 

Time: 8:30 AM

Song: 88 Lines About 44 Women
Artist: The Nails
Mode of Consumption: Listening to the radio on the way to church. 


Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/6YSF0u64K0xreRh1uOJuPw?si=ccce005c4a9c4506

 

We had another 4-to-6-inches of snow last night. Add that to the foot of snow from last week, and we are already having the roughest winter in these parts in the last decade. 

 

I spent time this morning arranging to get the snow plowed at the church, and deciding if we should even be having a service. A cancellation would make two in a row, which would knock out half the services for advent. Most of our congregation is elderly, so should they even attempt driving there? 

 

Snow removal is top of mind around these parts. 

 

The man that rents the farmland around us plows our lane, which is about a quarter mile long, gravel, and at a 45-degree angle from the roadway below. 

 

He opened it up this morning, leaving the top of the hill to us to handle. 

 

Plowing with the tractor we bought from Jodi’s mom is a new skill for both of us. Last weekend, I spent the better part of an hour pushing some of the snow around. I did better than the attempt I made last year when we had one storm with enough accumulation to plow. 

 

Still it was a slow, and I am still not confident that I could handle the hill. 

 

Jodi tried her hand today, and while she zoomed around the sheds while I was walking the dog out in the pasture, when I came back she had it stuck in front of a snow bank near our garage. 

 

We tried pulling it out with our truck, but that didn’t work. I brought out a couple buckets of gravel and that provided the traction we needed. 

 

She finished up in front of the garage as I went in to watch the Bears. 

 

It’s only December 7, so we’ll see how much more practice we’ll get this summer. 

Saturday, December 6, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 6, 2025

 



Saturday, December 6, 2025

 

Time: 2:07 PM

Song: Hook 
Artist: Blues Traveler
Mode of Consumption: Listening to the radio on the way home from Jodi’s moms. 


Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/27IRo2rYeizhRMDaNVplNM?si=11908d97508d481b

 

For the last decade or more, we haven’t bought our parents presents for Christmas. The reality being that they have reached a point in their lives where there are not many material possessions that they want, and the ones they do, they often just go out an purchase when the need arises. 

 

Instead of presents, we take them on daytrips. Sometimes it’s all together, sometimes we do one trip with my parents and one with Jodi’s.

 

The sole exception was in 2023 when we took Jodi’s parents to Washington, D.C. The trip happened in the spring, so the trips don’t always happen around Christmas. That trip came about because her parents had mentioned many times over the years that they wanted to go to the capital. They, however, didn’t want to do the driving out there. So, we took them. 

 

We wanted them to make it while they were both still in good health and able to do the walking that D.C. requires. As it turns out, we did it just in time, as her Dad would pass away unexpectantly in November of that same year. 

 

Jodi’s mom told some acquaintances about this as we ate lunch today at restaurant in Mt. Carroll. We took my parents and her mom to a Christmas home tour in Mt. Carroll today, which consisted of five stops to see old houses in the area. 

 

Mt. Carroll is a small village in the hills of Northwest Illinois. Most of the homes were built in the late 1800s or early 1900s. Each had owners who knew some of the history, and different ways that each had changed over the years. 

 

The homes were fun, the memories better. 

Friday, December 5, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 5, 2025

 



Friday, December 5, 2025

 

Time: 6:05 PM

Song: How Will I Know
Artist: Whitney Houston
Mode of Consumption: Listening to Whitney Houston’s self-titled album. 


Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/5tdKaKLnC4SgtDZ6RlWeal?si=96584c0954604c19

 

“This has to be one of her first albums,” Jodi says as we eat. “It’s 1985.”

 

I didn’t know the answer until looking that it was Whitney Houston’s first album. Her debut. Glancing through her wiki page, she had appeared as a backup singer on albums for her mother (Cissy Houston), Lou Rawls and Chaka Khan in the late 1970s and early 1980s. She had also started modeling in high school, appearing on the covers of major national magazines. 

 

She went on to release seven solo albums between 1985 and 2009 while also starring in several major motion pictures before dying in 2012. 

 

Houston was plagued by drug and alcohol problems along with having a volatile relationship with husband Bobby Brown. 

 

I guess I’ve never really thought about where Houston ranks in terms of famous tragedies of my lifetime. I suppose because I am more of a Rock ‘N Roll fan, a name like Kurt Cobain comes to mind first. 

 

Houston’s story is different though, as Cobain was gone almost as quickly as he burst onto the scene. 

 

Houston’s problems lingered. They were the fodder for tabloids and the dark recesses of the internet. The conclusion seemingly obvious, yet impossible to stop. The tattered woman at the end so different than the vibrant one singing on this album. 

 

Houston probably is closer to being our generation’s Marilyn Monroe than anyone. That talented, beautiful, intriguing figure consumed by some inner demon. 

Thursday, December 4, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 4, 2025

 


Thursday, December 4, 2025

Time: 7:59 AM
Song: Baba O’Riley
Artist: The Who
Mode of Consumption: Listening to MP3s on the way to work. 

Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/3qiyyUfYe7CRYLucrPmulD?si=91ee08bdd9274ea8

If you look back in this blog, you’ll see that back on November 18, I started going through my MP3s alphabetically on the way to Springfield for a concert.

Today, listening to MP3s this way mostly on my trips back-and-forth to work, I finally moved into songs with titles that begin with the letter “B.” That first being “Baba O’Riley.”

This is another song that makes me think of bus rides to high school as freshman and sophomore. I had this song on a mixtape, which I believe was a combination of the Who’s Greatest Hits and maybe some Tom Petty.

I had a weird theory that listening to The Who would supplement any studying I did and help me perform better on tests that day. I can’t remember if the results bore out to prove this theory, my general memory being that I liked to wing a lot my school tests, relying on a good memory from listening in class more than reading the material out of the textbooks.

That was true with biology. In eighth grade, I had performed surprisingly well on my placement tests for science and the biology teacher – a wonderful teacher named Mrs. Christensen – went to bat for me mostly based on the relationship she had with my older brother and sister – to be placed in the advanced science classes, including her freshman biology course.

I’d like to say I repaid her by being a star pupil who excelled in her class most of all. Sadly, I bet more on The Who helping me than studying harder, and I struggled through her course.

My science skills – meek as they proved to be – were better served in chemistry than biology or physics. Even then, I was far from gifted in any science.

Weirdly, it’s reading and writing where my talents lie, rather than math and science like my siblings. Even weirder, we all ended up working for engineering firms anyways.


Wednesday, December 3, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 3, 2025

 



Wednesday, December 3, 2025

Time: 8:00 AM

Song: Are You Lonesome Tonight?
Artist: Elvis Presley
Mode of Consumption: Listening to MP3s on the way to work.

Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/4wM7V31TsZzzDBEH02Hltb?si=8080c50c8da14e75

We had our Christmas party last night at Write On. This included a book exchange, treats, and the following writing challenge. We were provided with a Hallmark movie challenge which through selecting random number correlated with different aspects of the typical Hallmark movie plot. I finished the opening scene during our writing time.

Here is the prompt:

A Hard-Working Female TV personality is unhappy because her Christmas Tree and all her decorations were stolen, and she doesn’t have the money to replace them. Everything changes when she meets a troublesome male family man whose two kids are still mourning his recently deceased wife while they’re both moping around at a karaoke bar and get pressured into singing a Christmas duet. Through crazy circumstances and a little help from her wise old father, she soon discovers that Christmas isn’t Christmas without someone to love.

Here is the scene that I wrote:

About thirty seconds into stepping into the place, Stacy’s cover was blown. The large sunglasses. The rain bonnet covering her trademark auburn locks. The trench coat. All made obsolete by her father’s boisterous voice over the microphone.

“There she is,” Dad’s tanned face beamed, a glass of scotch in one hand and the microphone in the other. “My daughter – the beautiful and talented and single if you happen to be Prince Charming  - Stacy Dash.”

A few people clapped, probably either missing the blip about her in last week’s news cycle or already forgetting thanks to the barrage of other political, athletic or criminal outrage or hoopla careening through the airwaves and interwebs. Some didn’t clap though. Some stared at her with knowing looks that said: “You’re that Stacy Dash. Big-time TV Person. You’re the one that not only had that tree with all those immaculate and valuable decorations stolen from under your nose, but also unwittingly let the thieves into the room at the TV station to take it.”

She thought she heard someone whisper that she was probably in on it. Some of those ornaments had diamonds and gold and real silver. That tree was going to the children’s hospital, you know. It was going to be auctioned to raise money for those same kids. Thousands and thousands of dollars lost.

“This one goes to you, my Dash of joy,” Dad said, and then he began to croon “White Christmas” like he was Frank Sinatra or Bing Crosby.

She found a table near the corner, hoping it hid her from the angrier stares from the other patrons at “Sing-On” Karaoke Bar and Buffett. Since Dad had retired, himself a respected news anchor for forty-three years at the local CBS affiliate, he’d become obsessed with Karaoke bars, hitting one almost every night of the week. The only way she could see him, it seemed, was by showing up at one of his many performances.

She ordered a club soda from a snooty waitress before deciding to go ahead and remove the silly bonnet – it had been her grandmothers after all and probably hadn’t seen the light of day in ten years – and the sunglasses.

There were two men seated at a table behind her, and quickly she became more interested in their conversation more than her Dad’s singing.

“Aubrey’s bloodied three kids noses just this week,” one man said.

“Really, any reason.” His companion faked a chuckle.

“Oh, yeah, important reasons. One looked at her the wrong way. One called her name. One happened to be at the end of her fist. And then there’s Kevin, he won’t say a word. Hasn’t since… well you know.”

Stacy didn’t know but her curiosity was piqued. She risked a look back, saw both men. One in a suit, hair slicked back, phone in front of him. The other was wearing a collared golf shirt and a pair of jeans.

“The doctor says that kids are resilient and they’ll get passed this…”

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That's where I ran out of time

 


Tuesday, December 2, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 2, 2025

 



Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Time: 7:37 AM
Song: Tonight, Tonight
Artist: Stephen Wilson, Jr.
Mode of Consumption: Listening to the radio on the way to work.

Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/130TbbLfE1ffUMkvvF1nWJ?si=eb4cc2fdabd144dd

Jodi took my Jeep today to get the oil change, so I am driving her truck as I back out of the garage. I’ve picked up a few CDS, because our Ford actually has a CD player. I selected a few of my all-time favorites.

  1. Bringing Down the Horse by the Wallflowers – Easily the most played CD in my collection. I wore the thing out in the mid-to-late 90s and continued playing into the 2000s until the MP3s world phased CD play in many vehicles.
  2. Plans by Death Cab for Cutie – I bought this CD after college, and I remember playing it a ton in my black Grand-Am back and forth to Dixon for my first job as a teaching assistant at Dixon High School.
  3. The Rising by Bruce Springsteen – An album that came out in college, and I think a turning point for me in how I considered the Boss. He was no longer a past artist whose old tunes I enjoyed. He was still relevant, releasing rock music with a message.

Before I could put any in, this cover the Smashing Pumpkins song was playing and I spent a few minutes trying to figure out if I could recognize the vocalist. I couldn’t, and I had to look it up on Spotify when I got to work.

I prefer the original, but the vocals were interesting enough to keep me from my comfort CDs.

Monday, December 1, 2025

My Music Journal 2025: December 1, 2025

 





Monday, December 1, 2025

 

Time: 7:30 PM

Song: Hallelujah
Artist: Leonard Cohen
Mode of Consumption: Practicing songs on my ukulele. 


Link to song: 

 

I haven’t been as faithful at practicing the uke over the last several months. I still do it, but it’s more likely to be once a week rather than five or six times a week. 

 

Some of the reason is that I’ve been busy. Another is that I’ve reached a point where if I am ever going to get better I probably need someone who knows what they are doing to break bad habits that I sure I have and to really school me on things like strum patterns and other basic music things that I know about but don’t really understand. 

 

Tonight, I practiced my religious/holiday song mix.  

 

The first was “Silent Night.” I can finger pick this song relatively well (I’d be better if I was practicing more often). The strum pattern version isn’t bad either, as I keep it pretty simple with a down-down-up-down pattern that seems to fit OK. 

 

Next came “Auld Lang Syne.” Again, I can finger pick this one, and I think I do OK with a similar strum patter to “Silent Night.” 

 

After that came “Hallelujah.” I always like the first verse of this song the best about David playing a secret chord that pleased the lord. As I stated above, there’s a secret to playing music, and I just haven’t completely found it yet. I think it’s a secret that can be shared, but maybe some people are born with it. 

 

“Country Roads” followed that, which might not be the outlier for the mix, but it feels like it belongs. 

 

I finished with Tom Petty’s “Angel Dreams.” That one didn’t feel quite right tonight, but it is one I like to play. 

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