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My Music Journal 2025: October 2, 2025

 



Thursday, October 2, 2025

Time: 9:24 AM
Song:  Honey Bee
Artist: Tom Petty
Mode of Consumption: Listening to songs with insects in title or lyric for this week’s Pandmonium playlist.

Link to song: https://open.spotify.com/track/7bBJ2wBvhbCiNaZRqG3yTr?si=c215480f274443a9

I remember watching a clip of Dave Grohl telling a story of playing drums for Tom Petty on this song when Petty appeared on “Saturday Night Live.”

Grohl mentioned how he thought “Honey Bee” was such a great rock song.

It was the first time Grohl had performed following the death of Kurt Cobain, and that it confirmed that he could continue in music after Nirvana. I think he even mentioned that Petty invited him to stay with his group for the tour.

Grohl declined and went on to form Foo Fighters.

I think it’s an interesting lesson on how you can support others. It’s not always about saying the right things or sending flowers. Sometimes it’s asking them to do what they do. To get them back out in the world and make them realize the world is still moving.

I imagine Grohl would have reached that conclusion sooner or later, but it was probably easier going behind the drum kit for someone like Petty and just playing, because Grohl knew the eyes really wouldn’t be on him.

Today is the anniversary of Petty’s death in 2017. We had seen him in Champaign that spring on his final tour. I am not someone that gets emotional about celebrity deaths, but this was a tough one. In part, because we had just seen him, but also because he was such an omnipresent artist during my lifetime. His songs were on classic rock stations and current pop stations. His music videos were played often on MTV and VH1 (in the era where both regularly played music videos).

His CDs were ones I played often. His little 3-minute stories always hit the right notes.

The sudden end wasn’t one that made sense.


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